Menopause • Sexuality • Relationship Break-up • Empty Nest • Caring for / Loss of Parent • Parenting
Chronic Health & Acute Health Challenges • Confidence & Anxiety • Life Path & Meaning • Fulfilment


Hello and welcome. I am a psychotherapist with over 30 years experience.  I specialise in guiding all who identify as women to find their unique identity, to trust and accept themselves and to manage any difficult symptoms. Many of my clients in life’s transitions are exploring their sexuality, finding their voice, experiencing the end of relationships. Midlife and menopause can provide a pause and a space to evaluate, to change direction, or to grieve the losses and lack of fulfilment. 

My work is to support people to live happier and more fulfilled lives through understanding themselves with intelligent compassion and acceptance. Central to my practice is my commitment to diversity acceptance. I have undertaken additional training in working with LGBTQIA+ clients, in appreciating the impact of racism on my client’s bodies and psyche, for example. I have created training for therapists on sexuality and sexual diversity, and support groups for chronic health conditions, lesbian heartbreak, menopause and confidence to name just a few.

I work with a focus on the client’s inner voice and inner oppression with an understanding of the social context and history that has led to this. Working in student wellbeing at Sheffield Hallam University has given me increased experience of and appreciation of working with neuro-diversity. 

I founded Blue Skies in 1990. I have offered individual sessions, couples and groups sessions, retreats, tutoring and training workshops in the UK and abroad. My approach is humanistic and transpersonal arising from extensive training and experience. Take a look at my experience as a psychotherapist, supervisor, coach, university lecturer and trainer (see more of my history under Miriam Grace).

Miriam (she/her) works just by this sculpture which
represents the local steel industry. The abstract
design of strength, support and containment appeals to her.

Website photographs are taken locally by Nelly Naylor Photography


For those wishing to deepen their understanding of themselves, their relationships, or their clinical practice: You can explore what is on offer to help you located below. Or go directly to Book your course / session, email me personally or sign up for my newsletter.





to learn about working with Coming Out, Authenticity and Identity Click HERE


to find out about relationship problems with partners, parents, children and more Click HERE

to find out more about support through mid-life & menopausal issues Click HERE

if you seek supervision or training to enhance your work Click HERE


BLUE SKIES NEWS: Group Therapy

April 2024

GROUPWORK:Group work can be powerful and affirming and cheaper than individual sessions. 

• WILL GROUP – Women In Love (Lesbian edition) starts in May
on Wednesday evenings and will run for 8 sessions.

Group therapy for women of all ages wishing to understand how their romantic relationships with women differ from heterosexual experiences and who may be finding guidance and literature for this topic limited or unhelpful.
Registration Sessions will happen in APRIL!
click here for more details or see below

BLUE SKIES NEWS: New free facebook group!

Click here – 
Women In Love – a unique psychology



APRIL 2023
Queering Gestalt Therapy click here
by Ayhan Alman (Editor), John Gillespie (Editor), Vikram Kolmannskog (Editor)

Chapter 6 by Miriam Grace
published by Routledge
Available from Routledge and Amazon



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